Life Changers

Life Changers

Right from day one
Some will say a girl has come

Boys often given preference
Girls placed second for chance

Unknowingly this feeling creeps in
Gender preferences makes a home within

Self worth to measure up at home n abroad
A constant struggle waged within n without

Pressures galore to fit in, get accepted ever more
Chipping inner worthy self, eroding furthermore

Self confidence dissipating replaced by false bravado
Fronts shielding mauled spirits inside masks pseudo

To regain self worth recovery on war footing undertaken
Wise counsel of a savant for a quick turn around partaken

Unlearning years of layered ignominies and tongue bites
Giving free rein to independent thought for needed respite

Daily hugging, loving and forgiving self, nothing to lack
Brow beating by near or far ones shaken off as duck’s back

Be strong and proclaim

I am invincible, I am strong
I am lovable, worthy lifelong


This model was developed by the Domestic Abuse Intervention Project.

ps: my tribute to a dear friend Dawn Conrada Thomas

who taught me to love myself above all

she is a feisty 74 year old enrolled in college

at present  doing her MFA in creative fiction   and

is a published author of children’s books

she is a woman of substance.

pictures are from internet


2 Comments for: “Life Changers”

  1. Hi!

    This is a strange request, but my mom is a dear old friend of Dawn Conrada Thomas and would love to get back in touch with her. We googled her name and your website came up! If she has a contact email or phone number, my mom would love to have it.

    Beautiful poetry!

    Submitted by Jennifer on May 19th, 2013 11:36 pm
  2. dawn’s email is :

    Submitted by Bina Gupta on May 20th, 2013 1:38 am

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